Writer's Block: I see you

[author_by_night]

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It's always okay. There's nothing wrong with a little privacy invasion - it proves you care. I'm all for reading text messages and emails, following your SO down the street, listening in on phone calls with whatever gender your SO prefers in case (s)he really isn't "just a friend", anything that ensures the security of your relationship.


None of the above is true. Unless you think your SO is in immediate danger, it is never okay. It doesn't show you care. If (s)he does it to you, it's not showing (s)he cares. It's a violation of trust.