as a matter of fact...my wife and I only really have arguments over 2 subjects. Her family and my friends. I apparently spend put my friends first too often and according to her, never her first. This is of course not true. When she's at work and I dn't want to spend the evening at home doing nothing but waiting for her to get home at 11 or 12...I put my friends frst. When we are both off and she goes to visit her mom leaving me at home to do whatever till 4 or 5, I put friends forst. When we make oplans to go see a movie or visit my parents or do anything other then sit at home watching TV, I put her first. You see a pattern? So yeah...it really depends, but always remember this...if you put your SO first, they will put you first as well.
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Date: 2009-06-11 04:02 pm (UTC)