I've always identified as a Hufflepuff too! I agree with a lot of what you're saying here, especially the stuff about making commitments and sticking to them. I hate spontaneity!

But it's hard when you mean things when others don't, when you love so much in a cynical world, when you want things to work and nobody else cares - or rather, they care, but not as you do.

Oh, this. So very much.