But to imply that a woman MUST be modest for you? That is when it is no longer a choice, but a demand.

Whoa. I think that right there is the heart of the problem. Hmmm. It's like, modesty or immodesty isn't the point, it's that we're saying men "need" one.

And that women need men. And thus they must dress to attract them.

Oh dang. This is going to take some thinking.