I made the mistake of asking why there was no discussion at one, and the response was basically "um wtf would we talk about?"
... Umm, I don't know... the show itself?! /sarcasm.
There's a difference between fangirling over actors and not being able to discuss the show. Doesn't really seem worth watching it if you can't even do that!!

Yeah, I suppose Willow can be that way. I'm still in the 'she's so nice' part of the series! XD But I could see how her going evil would definitely throw people off. I've read too many Willow/Spike fanfics, so I'm already seeing bits of her not being that good/nice/calm. I prefer it. Which is probably why I like Vamp!Willow in The Wish a heck of a lot! :D