I'll be a twenty-nine-year-old fangirl in a couple of weeks, is that old enough?

Thanks for posting this. It puts into words a number of things that I've often wanted to say, especially about the "well, they just want to pair Remus up with SOMEbody female" thing. (Actually, my experience has been exactly the opposite: this is one of the few fanships that seem to be more popular with casual readers who don't read or write fanfiction, don't have long lists of ships they'd like to see, and don't go around scouring the books for "subtext.")