but it's silly not to be friends with someone just because they think H/Hr is soooo canon

I actually knew someone who said she lost respect for a friend who she found out (sort of) shipped Harry/Hermione. But the insanity of shipping is a whole other topic. ;) I'll just say this - I am very Ron/Hermione, almost always was, and my cousin (and one of my best friends) hated Ron/Hermione until HBP (and even then, didn't really like it). We managed to stay close anyway, even if I did constantly tease her. ;)