That's what I figured. :D I agree. I once thought through how several of the big "misogyny" complaints about HBP - Tonks was too weepy, Ginny dated too much, &c. - would have still been considered misogynist if they had come out the opposite way in canon (if Tonks hadn't seemed to care she would have been heartless, if Ginny had saved herself for Harry that would have been ridiculous).

I read an essay once that was basically "Why Joss Whedon Hates Women and How He Rapes His Wife," and I'm not making that up.