Ino, ino, but this is one of those things where I tend to think someone who doesn't see it just doesn't want to see it.

I guess it depends on fandom experience, though, now that I think about it. I don't really know that I would be quite so intolerant of fandom misogyny if my friends hadn't pointed some of it out to me a long time ago, and if I hadn't seen more and more and more examples from various fandoms.