I was afraid I might come across as saying Ginny was selfish; no, I really meant what you just said - but that the crush was more fascination. I don't think it was selfish in the least, because I had tons of those sorts of crushes that came more from interest and admiration than anything else. For instance, I had a crush on a teacher who I now feel was very nice, but had no idea how to handle a class - and he was far too old for me anyway (obviously).